Paris Jackson was born on April 3, 1998 in California as the second child of legendary musician Michael Jackson. Growing up in the shadow of the “King of Pop,” her life was anything but ordinary from the start. Her early years were a mixture of privilege and seclusion, shielded from the public eye by her father and siblings, who valued privacy and a non-traditional education.
Paris and her brothers were homeschooled until sixth grade, and were spared the relentless media scrutiny that dominated Michael Jackson’s life. Her father, who was deeply committed to a rich education, exposed her to different cultures and experiences beyond the glitz of fame. Paris fondly remembers how these experiences broadened her worldview and instilled in her values such as cultural appreciation and hard work. From a young age, she understood the importance of succeeding on her own merits.
At the age of 11, tragedy struck Paris when her father died suddenly, thrusting her into the spotlight. Her poignant speech at his memorial service marked her public debut and gave the world a glimpse into Michael Jackson’s private family life. Paris and her brothers then accepted her father’s posthumous Lifetime Achievement Award at the Grammy Awards, further cementing her public presence.
Navigating her youth amidst her father’s legacy proved challenging. Paris faced personal issues that culminated in a time of change at a therapeutic boarding school in Utah. This experience was pivotal in improving her mental health and developing a stronger person
Despite the significance of her family name, Paris was determined to follow her own path. She graduated from high school and embraced modeling as a means of self-expression, which brought her to the attention of prestigious publications. Her unique style and individuality shone on the covers of Rolling Stone, Vogue and Narcisse, making her a fashion icon in her own right.
In 2020, Paris ventured into the music industry with her debut album, “Wilted,” showcasing an indie folk sound that explores themes of heartbreak and love. Although Paris is influenced by her father’s musical legacy, she is focused on developing her own identity in the industry.
Throughout her journey, Paris Jackson remains deeply connected to the memory of her father, finding comfort in dreams in which Michael Jackson continues to guide and comfort her, underscoring their enduring bond.
One of resilience and growth, handling fame and personal loss with grace, Paris Jackson’s story serves as an inspiration to those facing adversity and embodies the pursuit of individuality amidst the challenges of her extraordinary upbringing.
If you see a purple butterfly sticker near a newborn, you need to know what it means
Only weeks after Millie Smith and Lewis Cann learned they were having twin baby girls, they learned that only one would survive.
On April 30, after 30 weeks of a high-risk pregnancy, Smith delivered identical twins, Callie and Skye, the latter who lived only three hours.
Later in neonatal intensive care unit (NICU), Callie slept without her sister in the incubator, with her loving and grieving parents watching over her. In the unit with other babies, an overwhelmed mom of healthy newborn twins innocently told Smith that she was “so lucky” to not have two babies.
Crushed by the words, the new mom couldn’t find the words to explain her loss. Then, she realized that Skye’s legacy was to help other families who lose a child, and it came in the form of a purple butterfly.
In November 2015 Millie Smith and partner Lewis Cann found out they were having their first Child. Smith, who has twins in the family, said she had a “gut feeling” about having a duo and 10 weeks later, doctors confirmed she was expecting identical twin girls.
Less than two weeks after the excitement of knowing they would double the children in their home, the British couple were devastated to learn that one of their babies had a fatal condition and wouldn’t survive after birth.
“During the scan, the doctor didn’t say anything. I was very excited and loved seeing the little babies, but she was silent. Both Lewis and I immediately knew there must be a problem,” Smith said.
Doctors shared the news that one of the babies had anencephaly, which according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) affects about one in 4,600 babies across the U.S. It’s a serious birth defect where a baby is born without parts of the brain and skull, and “almost all babies born with anencephaly will die shortly after birth.”
Knowing that one baby would die soon after birth, and that there were risks involved for their other baby, the couple decided to move forward with the extremely high-risk pregnancy.
Over the next several months, Smith and Cann named their twins Skye and Callie. “We knew that Skye needed to have a name before she was born,” Smith said. “Knowing she would only survive for seconds or minutes, I wanted her to be named during that time.”
The meaning behind “Skye,” she explained “was somewhere we knew she would always be, that we could look up at the sky and remember our baby.”
When Smith went into labor after only 30 weeks on April 30, she needed an emergency C-section. To help navigate the loss, the couple had a “bereavement midwife” during the birth, and they were put I a special room the called the “Daisy Room,” where families can spend time with a baby before and after she/he passes.
“When the girls were born, they both cried. This was a huge moment, as we were told that Skye would not make a noise or move,” said Smith, who was thankful to have three hours with Skye before she died. “We were cuddling Skye when she passed away. This was the worst moment in our lives. I have never ever felt heartbreak like that before. But I am proud that she fought for so long to spend time with us.”
Born premature, Callie had to stay in NICU while she gained some strength and also in the unit were three other sets of twin.
“Most of the nurses were aware of what had happened, but as time passed, people stopped talking about Skye. After about four weeks, everyone acted as though nothing had happened, meaning the families around me had no idea about our situation,” Smith recalled.
One morning, a stressed mother whose twins were also in NICU, harmlessly said to Smith that she was “so lucky” to not have twins.
“None of the other parents knew what had happened or anything about Skye. The comment was completely innocent and more out of humor…They weren’t to know that I did at one point have two.” Smith continued, “But the comment nearly broke me. I ran out [of] the room in tears and they had no idea why. I didn’t have the heart to tell them what had happened. A simple sticker would have avoided that entire situation.”
It was in that moment Smith realized she had to create something that would speak for parents who had just lost a baby, ensuring the misunderstanding never happens again.
She designed a poster for the NICU explaining both hospital personnel and visitors that any incubator with a purple butterfly on it means that one or more babies, in a set of multiples were lost.
“I chose butterflies, as I felt it was fitting to remember the babies that flew away, the color purple because it is suitable for both boys or girls,” said Smith.
The purple butterfly concept–now under the Skye High Foundation–has spread to hospitals in several countries around the world.
Callie is now a lively, happy seven-year-old, and twin’s memory lives in purple butterfly cards along with other initiatives to help families with babies like Skye all over the world. The purple butterflies now come in numerous forms, like ornaments, cards, blankets, stuffed animals and more.
“Ultimately I will never be able to stop this from happening but the more support groups we can set up and put things in place like the stickers the better it will be. It’s the hardest thing anyone has to deal with,” Smith said.
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