When Kate’s husband took her car and left their kids behind to sneak off to a wedding he’d refused to attend, she felt betrayed until she realized the truth about why he was there. But what he didn’t know? Kate had the power to stop him in his tracks — and she didn’t hesitate to use it.
What would you do if someone you trusted and built a life with betrayed you? Would you fight for them? Or would you walk away and never look back? I never thought I’d be asking myself these questions, but here I am. My name’s Kate. I’m 32, a mom of two, and last weekend, my husband shattered everything I thought I knew about him.
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It all started with an invite to an old college friend’s wedding.
Emily wasn’t a close friend anymore, but Max and I had known her for years. She was the kind of person you couldn’t help but root for. She was kind, bubbly, and a little high-strung but always sweet.
When we got the invite, I was excited to go. But Max? Not so much.
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“Look what came in the mail!” I called out excitedly, waving the elegant cream envelope. “Emily’s finally getting married!”
“I’m not going to that wedding,” he flatly said as we sat on the couch.
“What? Why not?”
“Because I don’t want to, Kate,” he snapped, rubbing his temples. “I have no interest in standing around making small talk with people I barely remember.”
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A few days passed, and I assumed he would change his mind. But Max remained stubborn.
“You’ve been acting strange since the invitation arrived,” I said softly, moving closer to him. “What’s really going on?”
He shifted away, anxiety visible in every line of his body. “Nothing’s going on. I just don’t want to waste a perfectly good Saturday with people from our past.”
I raised an eyebrow. “Emily’s not just some random person, Max. She’s our —”
“She’s your friend,” he cut in. “Not mine.”
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“Since when?” I demanded, hurt creeping into my voice. “You used to love hanging out with her and her group. Remember all those game nights in college?”
His face darkened. “That was a lifetime ago, Kate. People change. Relationships change.”
The tone was final. I didn’t push it, though I couldn’t help but feel hurt. Max wasn’t usually like this. Sure, he could be stubborn, but this was a different level of dismissive.
“Fine,” I said, forcing a smile. “You can stay home with the kids, then.”
He readily agreed, and that was the plan.
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On the day of the wedding, I woke up early and headed to the salon. Max was supposed to take the kids to the amusement park while I got ready.
“Daddy, aren’t you going to the wedding?” Emma asked over breakfast, milk dribbling down her chin.
Max tensed, then forced a smile. “No, princess. Daddy’s going to have a special day with you and Liam instead.”
“But Mommy’s going,” Liam pouted. “Why can’t we all go?”
“Sometimes grown-ups make complicated decisions,” Max muttered, avoiding my eyes across the table.
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“Don’t worry, babe,” he’d said that morning, squeezing my hand. “You go enjoy yourself. I’ve got the kids.”
“You promise everything will be okay?” I whispered, searching his face for any sign of what was bothering him.
“Promise,” he smiled, but something in his expression seemed off. “The kids and I will have a blast. Maybe we’ll even build that pillow fort Emma’s been begging for.”
For a moment, I felt relieved. Maybe I’d overreacted. Maybe he wasn’t being distant and tired. But I was WRONG.
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I came home a few hours later, hair styled and makeup done, feeling excited for the evening ahead. But when I walked into the house, my heart SANK.
The living room was a mess and littered with abandoned toys, snack wrappers, and the remnants of what looked like a very rushed lunch. The kids were sad and alone. But that wasn’t the only problem when I rushed out to check. The problem was that my car — our only car — was gone.
And so was Max.
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“Emma?” I called, trying to stay calm.
My 7-year-old poked her head out from behind the couch. “Yeah?”
“Where’s Dad?”
She climbed up onto the couch, looking entirely unbothered. “He left.”
“Left? What do you mean ‘he left’?”
“He got a call,” she said, plopping down and grabbing the remote. “He said, ‘I’m coming, don’t worry… wedding,’ and then he dropped us off and drove away.”
“Sweetie,” I knelt beside her, trying to keep my voice steady, “did he say anything else? Anything at all?”
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Emma twisted a strand of hair around her finger. “He was acting weird, Mommy.”
“Weird how, baby?”
“His hands were shaking when he got the call. And he kept saying ‘I shouldn’t, I shouldn’t’ while packing our lunch. Then he just… left.”
My stomach twisted. “He went to the wedding?”
Emma nodded, flipping through the channels. “I think so.”
I didn’t know whether to scream or cry. He’d taken MY CAR, ditched OUR KIDS, and gone to the wedding he’d REFUSED to attend. And he hadn’t even bothered to text me.
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I grabbed my phone and called him. But it landed straight in voicemail. I called again. Nothing.
“Unbelievable,” I muttered under my breath. My hands were shaking as I sat down on the edge of the couch. This wasn’t just selfish — it was a betrayal.
I knew I couldn’t leave Emma and her little brother, Liam, alone, so I called my mom.
“Hey, can you come over? I need to take care of something.”
“Kate, what’s going on? You sound upset.”
“I’ll explain later. Can you just get here as soon as possible?”
“Sweetheart, you’re scaring me,” my mom’s voice cracked with concern. “Did something happen with Max?”
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“Mom, please,” I choked back tears. “I just need you here. Now.”
She didn’t ask any more questions, and ten minutes later, she was at my door.
“Kate, what happened?” she asked as she stepped inside.
I shook my head, grabbing my purse. “I can’t… I don’t have time to explain right now. I’ll call you once I’m on the road.”
“Kate, wait,” she caught my arm. “Whatever’s going on, be careful. Think about the kids.”
“I am thinking about the kids,” I whispered fiercely. “That’s exactly why I have to go.”
Without waiting for her response, I grabbed her car keys and headed out.
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The drive to the venue felt surreal. A thousand thoughts ran through my mind. Why would Max do this? Why lie to me, leave the kids, and steal my car? What was so important about this wedding that he couldn’t stay away?
On the way, a thought hit me like a lightning bolt. The guest list. I’d helped Emily coordinate it weeks ago. I quickly dialed the venue manager.
“Hi, this is Kate. I need you to do me a favor. Quick question — has a man named Max arrived there yet?”
The manager hesitated for a moment. “Uh, no, I don’t think so. Not yet.”
“Good,” I said. “Listen carefully… under no circumstances should you let him in. He’s not invited, and it’s extremely important he doesn’t get past the doors.”
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There was a pause on the other end. “Uh… sure. Consider it handled.”
“Thank you,” I breathed. “And Sarah? If he asks who blocked him… make sure he knows it was ME.”
I hung up and pulled into the wedding venue parking lot about ten minutes later.
Max was standing outside the entrance, pacing like a madman. His phone was pressed to his ear, and he was yelling loud enough for me to hear through the car window.
I stayed in the car for a moment, watching. He looked frantic, and for once, I didn’t feel sorry for him.
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My phone buzzed, and his name popped up on the screen.
“WAS THIS YOU?!” he shouted the second I answered. “DID YOU DO THIS TO ME?”
I couldn’t help but smirk. “What’s wrong, Max? Something keeping you from sneaking into the wedding you didn’t want to go to?”
“Are you serious right now?” he barked. “Let me in, Kate!”
“Not a chance.”
“You’re being ridiculous, Kate!”
“No, Max. You stole my car, abandoned our kids, and lied to me. What’s ridiculous is you thinking I’d let you get away with it.”
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“Kate, please,” his voice cracked. “You don’t understand what’s at stake here!”
“What’s at stake? What’s at stake is our marriage, Max. Our family. And you just threw it all away for… what?”
Before he could respond, I hung up and stepped out of the car. As I made my way toward him, Emily appeared at the entrance, looking confused.
“Max?” she called, her voice unsure.
He turned to her, his entire demeanor shifting. “Emily! Finally. Look, I just —”
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“What are you doing here?” she asked, cutting him off.
“You called me,” he said, softening his tone. “You said you were nervous, so I came.”
Emily blinked, stunned. “I… I called you this afternoon. Look, I’m sorry. I shouldn’t have done that. I didn’t think you’d actually show up.”
“That makes two of us,” I said, stepping into view.
Emily’s eyes widened. “Kate… I didn’t —”
“What’s going on?” I asked, crossing my arms.
She looked between me and Max, clearly panicked. “I swear, I didn’t mean for this to happen.”
“Didn’t mean for WHAT to happen, Emily?”
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Her shoulders slumped, and she let out a shaky breath. “Max and I… we were involved. Years ago. Before you two were together.”
I felt like the ground had shifted beneath me.
“It’s not what you think,” Max said quickly.
“Oh, really?” I snapped. “So you didn’t just abandon your family to come running to your ex’s wedding?”
“Kate, it’s not like that!” he said, his voice desperate.
“Then what is it like, Max?” I demanded, tears burning in my eyes. “Because from where I’m standing, you chose HER over our children!”
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But Emily wasn’t done. “I don’t know why he’s here,” she admitted. “I called him this afternoon because I was nervous. I just wanted to apologize — for leaving him, for everything — before starting fresh with my new husband. But before I could finish talking, the call dropped or something. I couldn’t hear him anymore. I tried calling back, but my calls went straight to voicemail. I never asked him to come.”
I stared at her, then at Max, my chest tightening with every second. After a tense standoff, Emily retreated inside, leaving me alone with Max.
“Do you have any idea what you’ve done?” I said, my voice shaking.
“Kate, I was just trying to help —”
“No,” I cut him off. “You weren’t trying to help. You were trying to… what? Relive your glory days? Prove to yourself you still mean something to her?”
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He opened his mouth to respond, but no words came out.
“Our children, Max,” I whispered, tears falling freely now. “You left our children. Do you know what that means?”
“Kate, please,” he reached for me, but I stepped back. “You don’t understand what I was trying to prevent!”
I spun around, fury burning in my chest. “Prevent? You left our children alone! What could possibly be worth that?”
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“I thought…” he trailed off, running his hands through his hair. “I thought if I came here, I could stop her from making the same mistake I did.”
“What mistake?”
“Marrying the wrong person,” he whispered, and the words hit me like a physical blow.
I shook my head, my voice barely audible. “Then I guess we both made that mistake, didn’t we?”
I turned and walked away, not waiting for his response.
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That night, as I tucked Emma and Liam into bed, Emma wrapped her little arms around my neck.
“Mommy?” she whispered. “Are you and Daddy going to be okay?”
I held her tighter, my heart breaking. “I don’t know, baby. But I promise you and Liam will always be okay.”
“Pinky promise?”
“Pinky promise,” I said, linking our fingers together.
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Later, alone in the kitchen, I stared at my wedding ring as my phone buzzed with another message from Max: “Please forgive me… I’m sorry. We need to talk.”
I typed back three words: “Not tonight, Max.” Then I turned off my phone and let the tears finally fall.
I don’t know what’s next for us. But I do know one thing — I’m done putting myself last. Because sometimes, the hardest part isn’t the betrayal itself. It’s accepting that the person you love isn’t the person you thought they were.
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‘I Always Describe It as This Angel That Fell Out of the Sky’: All about Mariska Hargitay’s 3 Children
Mariska Hargitay’s journey to motherhood is truly inspiring. Known for her iconic role on “Law & Order: SVU,” her real-life story revolves around love, resilience, and the joy of raising three children. The actress’s path to building a family is filled with unexpected blessings and deep gratitude.
Mariska Hargitay’s journey into motherhood began in her early 40s when she gave birth to her first child. Despite the challenges of being a first-time mother later in life, she wholeheartedly and joyfully embraced motherhood.
Her family grew when she and her husband, actor Peter Hermann, welcomed two more children within a year. Each child brought unique blessings into their lives, and Mariska cherishes the unexpected path that led her to become a mother of three.
Long before becoming a mother, Mariska always envisioned having her own family. From a young age, she knew motherhood was part of her life plans, a desire deeply rooted in her own upbringing.
A Childhood of Glitz and Heartbreak: The Early Life of Mariska Hargitay
Mariska is an actress, who added producing and directing to her list of talents. She was born to the glamorous actress Jayne Mansfield and the former Mr. Universe Mickey Hargitay on January 23, 1964.
Being born into Hollywood royalty, Mariska’s early life was surrounded by fame and glitz. This set a unique backdrop for her childhood. However, her early years were also marked by tragedy.
When Mariska was just three years old, her mother died in a car accident on June 29, 1967. This loss left a lasting scar on the actress, both physically and emotionally.
The actress expressed, “I clearly was in that frozen place for a lot of my childhood—of trying to survive, actually trying to survive. My life has been a process of unpeeling the layers and trust and trusting again.”
Despite this tragic beginning, Mariska’s parents’ legacy played a significant role in shaping her character. Her father, Mickey, raised her with discipline and love, teaching her the importance of hard work and resilience.
He ensured she had a normal upbringing. Mariska joined the swim team, ran cross-country, played volleyball, and by 1982, she was crowned Miss Beverly Hills. Despite her accomplishments, she was always aware of the darker side of life.
The actress later explained that she learned about crisis early and realized that life offers no guarantees, but we must keep moving forward and transform our experiences.
She considers this ability to be her superpower and sees it as a gift from experiencing trauma early in life. Despite these challenges, Mariska went on to live a full and fulfilling life.
Embracing Motherhood: Mariska’s Journey from Daughter to Mom
For Mariska, 2004 marked the beginning of a new phase in her life. That year, she married Peter, and on June 28, 2006, the actress welcomed her first child, August Miklos Friedrich Hermann, at 42.
Starting this journey into motherhood was easy for Mariska as she knew from a young age that she was meant for it. Despite losing her mother, she never lacked a maternal figure in her life. The actress was raised by her father’s third wife, Ellen Siano Hargitay, who never made her feel like an outsider.
Mariska reminisced, “I called her Mom. She really claimed us. She never had biological kids of her own, and to this day we are her kids. So we were blessed that she really embraced us and loved us so quickly. And I was very fortunate to have a maternal figure in my life after such a horrific accident.”
Additionally, while Ellen’s motherly act prepared Mariska for being a mom, it also stirred in her the desire to have children by other means. The actress had grown up realizing that being a mother did not have to be biological.
A Dream Fulfilled: The Adoption of Amaya Josephine
After a few years of becoming parents, Mariska and Peter, who came from big families, decided it was time to expand theirs. They were also not the only ones clamoring for more kids around the house. Their son August also wanted siblings.
However, the actress was over 40, and at her age at the time, pregnancies were never easy. Knowing she and her husband had so much love to give, Mariska was hopeful. She said, “I was really letting the chips fall as they might, because I do think so much is up to God.”
Mariska didn’t know how she was going to have more children, but she knew it was something that would happen. The actress remarked, “I always said, ‘I don’t know how this is going to end up. I don’t know if I’m going to get pregnant and have twins.’”
Despite having no clue, there was something she was sure of, and that was adoption. She recalled not knowing if someone would leave a baby on her doorstep. Nevertheless, she said, “But I really did think that down the line, Peter and I would adopt a child. That was always part of the plan.”
In early April 2011, Mariska and Peter’s plan came to fruition as they welcomed their second child, Amaya Josephine Hermann. Their daughter had been born in the United States about a week before her adoption.
As soon as the couple decided to adopt, they did not limit themselves as they considered international and domestic adoption. Mariska revealed they had talked about the idea of mixed-race adoptions, and were excited to become a multi-racial family.
The actress’s excitement began even before Amaya joined the family. Mariska had revealed, “I’m deliriously happy. From the minute she was born, she was just surprisingly alert and so full of love.”
The second time Mother was not alone in her excitement. August, who was less than five at the time, was also happy to have a baby sister. His Mom disclosed, “He is over the moon. He calls her his baby because he says the whole thing was his idea. He always talks about how he’s going to protect her. He’s going to be a great big brother.”
A Brother’s Dream: The Joyous Arrival of Andrew Nicolas
August, who prided himself as a big brother, was very hands-on in his sister’s life. He reportedly even participated in picking out her name. However, seeing as he thought it was his idea for her to join the family, he wanted yet another sibling.
Six months after Amaya came home as a newborn, August’s wish was fulfilled as he welcomed his baby brother, Andrew Nicolas Hermann, in October 2011. This time, Andrew was not a newborn, as he had been born in the summer of that year.
Mariska noted, “August thinks this was all his idea! He said, ‘I want a baby sister,’ and Amaya came. Then he said, ‘I want a baby brother,’ and Andrew came. August is feeling pretty good and pretty powerful!”
While August Miklos Friedrich Hermann felt powerful, Mariska was feeling a range of positive emotions. She said, “We adopted Amaya, and Andrew, I always describe it as this angel that fell out of the sky, because he was a little unexpected. [sic]”
Andrew Nicolas, Peter Hermann, and Mariska Hargitay at the ceremony honoring Mariska Hargitay with a Star on The Hollywood Walk of Fame on November 8, 2013, in Hollywood. | Source: Getty Images
The adoption of Andrew was not something Peter and Mariska had planned for at the time it happened. The couple had initially planned to adopt another baby a year or more after Amaya joined their household.
However, things happened differently. The actress revealed that their lawyer suddenly called them to inform them about Andrew. Their lawyer noted that it was an amazing opportunity, and the couple, in that moment, had never been more sure about having him in their lives.
The swiftness and timing of Andrew joining their family makes the actress believe her son “fell out of the sky.” Nevertheless, Mariska knows that it’s not an easy journey.
She once remarked, “I’m not gonna lie, there were wrenching moments. I say to everybody, ‘Adoption is not for the faint of heart.’” But, on some days, the actress feels like she’s living in a dream world. She said, “I just sit and pinch myself.”
Mariska Hargitay with Amaya, Andrew, and August at The Children’s Museum Of The East End 5th Annual Family Fair on July 20, 2013, in Bridgehampton, New York. | Source: Getty Images
Family and Fulfillment: Mariska Hargitay on Life as a Mother of Three
At 47, Mariska, who initially didn’t think it was possible to love more than one kid, had become a mom of three. She said, “You know you have one kid, and then you think, oh my gosh, I’ll never love another kid, and then the second one comes, and you can’t believe that you love them, and then the third one fell out of sky.”
Becoming a mother did not only teach Mariska about her capacity to love, it did more. She noted, “Becoming a parent erased many of my negative childhood feelings and filled them in with something new,” some of which include trying out new cultures when it comes to their cuisines.
The actress is not the only one to have spoken to the media about their family of five. Peter Hermann’s love for his family is always evident even though gets private about their kids. However, he expressed his thoughts on the unconventional manner in which their family grew.
The actor divulged, “It’s funny, I always get so private about our kids, but I think that the easiest way or the easiest answer is we just wanted a bigger family and we feel incredibly blessed.”
In 2018, Mariska also opened up about her life with the kids as she graced the cover of People’s magazine. She said, “The thing that’s made me a better parent is my kids. Because they taught me to really listen. My husband is my North Star, and my kids are my teachers.”
Not only did they make her a better parent, they also gave her something perfect in life. The actress revealed, “Our family is so perfect, or at least perfect for me. Together we’re just this whole, happy, joyful, chaotic, crazy unit. I’ve never known anything that was more right.”
Despite having a crazy and chaotic unit, Mariska and Peter work together to get the results they desire. Even though they have different parenting styles, the couple complement each other, with the actress revealing that her husband knows everything she doesn’t know.
Shortly before turning 60 in 2024, Mariska reflected on her life’s journey, career, motherhood, and more. The actress had countless reasons to be thankful.
Peter Hermann and Mariska Hargitay with their children, August, Andrew, and Amaya at the 2023 Stuttering Association For The Young (SAY) Benefit Gala on May 22, 2023, in New York City. | Source: Getty Images
One of the things Mariska was thankful for was the timing when she started her family. She said, “I’m so grateful that I’m an older mom. Grateful that I became successful older. I don’t know if I could have handled it when I was younger.”
The actress then compared what she was like in her younger days. She remembered that in her younger years, she struggled to be present, but as she got older, she learned to accept and appreciate life more deeply.
She noted, “And now I’m going to savor this moment. I want to share my lessons and where there is pain that I can fix that really inspires me to lighten the load.”
Mariska’s journey shows her strength and love. Starting her family in her early 40s, she faced the challenges and joys of raising three children with Peter. Their story is full of unexpected blessings and deep gratitude. As she cherishes her family, Mariska inspires us to embrace life’s surprises and the power of love at any age.
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