At 82, veteran actress Juliet Mills has been happily married for over 40 years to Maxwell Caulfield, who is 18 years younger. Their relationship, which began in the entertainment industry, faced skepticism early on due to their significant age difference. Mills, who first gained attention as a child star, recalls their meeting as a moment of instant connection, describing it as love at first sight. Despite public doubt, they’ve built a strong, lasting relationship, which has stood the test of time.
Mills’ career took off in the 1960s with roles in movies like The Rare Breed and the TV series Nanny and the Professor, which brought her widespread recognition. She later met Caulfield when they were cast together in a U.S. tour of the award-winning play The Elephant Man. In the production, Caulfield played John Merrick, whileportrayed Mrs. Kendal. It was during this time that their friendship blossomed into a deep romantic connection.
In interviews, both Mills and Caulfield have spoken openly about their “instant attraction” and deep psychic bond. Caulfield has shared how their relationship felt “full-blown” from the beginning, and Mills agrees, reflecting on how it seemed like they had known each other in another life. Their first date was a memorable evening seeing Betrayal on Broadway, where they were invited by Mills’ friend, actress Natalie Wood.
Despite their obvious chemistry, when the couple married in 1980, many doubted that their union would last, especially given that Caulfield was just 21 at the time. The age difference drew attention from the media, but the couple remained unconcerned. Mills has often said that living in California helped them avoid much of the public scrutiny.
More importantly, those closest to them, including Mills’ father, fully supported their relationship. He told his daughter, “Age is irrelevant when you find someone you want to share your life with.”
Their relationship has endured not just because of their love, but also because of their shared interests and respect for each other’s careers. Caulfield, who gained fame with his role in Grease 2, has always admired Mills’ talents and accomplishments, which include a successful theater and television career. Over the years, they have both remained active in the entertainment industry, continuing to work and support each other through different roles.
Juliet Mills looks back at her career with pride, but she is just as proud of her personal life and the bond she shares with her husband.
After four decades of marriage, Mills and Caulfield have proved that their love transcends the age gap and the expectations of others. They continue to inspire with their enduring love story, showing that a deep connection and mutual respect are the true foundations of a lasting relationship.
Juliet Mills and Maxwell Caulfield have proven time and again that age is just a number when it comes to love. After facing public doubt and skepticism early in their relationship due to their 18-year age difference, the couple has now silenced their critics. Mills, who had been married twice before, never felt the age gap between her and Caulfield, describing him as romantic, protective, and her best friend.
Caulfield took charge of planning their wedding, arranging a sunrise ceremony on a cliff overlooking the Pacific Ocean at Point Dume in Malibu. The intimate reception that followed at Mills’ Beverly Hills home was decorated with fairy lights and archways, making it a magical and unforgettable event.
His romantic gesture during the proposal involved releasing two doves from his tuxedo pockets, a reflection of his deep affection for Mills. “She brings out the romantic in me,” he said.
In a recent interview, Caulfield expressed how Mills, his wife of over 40 years, has kept him youthful and vibrant. The couple remains active in public life, and in April 2017, they attended the classic #ENOCarousel event together. Caulfield posted a joyful photo of them online, and fans were quick to comment on their enduring love. “What a lovely photograph!” said one person, while another added, “You two lovebirds look great!”
Even in 2013, Caulfield shared a sweet snapshot of them with the caption, “Right side up!” Fans flooded the comments with compliments, calling them a “lovely couple.”
Through all the ups and downs, Mills and Caulfield have shown that their bond is unshakeable, defying the odds and proving that true love can thrive despite an age gap or public scrutiny. Their romance remains a shining example of deep companionship and enduring affection.
I Brought My Fiancé to Meet My Parents — He Fled in the Middle of the Night, Shouting ‘I Can’t Believe It!’
I’ve been with my fiancé for six years, and we were supposed to get married next month. But during a visit to my parents, he discovered their secret lifestyle, causing him to question our relationship too.
I’ve been with my fiancé for six years, but we’ve known each other for nine. We were supposed to get married next month, but then everything changed the course of our wedding journey.
We went to visit my parents to introduce him to more of my extended family before the wedding. My parents offered to host us, and we’ve been staying in my old room for the sake of nostalgia.
My fiancé, Adam, wanted to stay at a hotel, but I thought it would be fun to just have him share my old room with me.
“I don’t see why staying in your childhood home is going to change anything,” Adam told me when we were packing for the trip.
“Because it’s going to be my last time with my parents under their roof before I become a married woman. It’s going to be a sentimental moment,” I replied.
“If it gets uncomfortable, I’m just going to check myself into a hotel,” he said casually.
Of course, I didn’t expect what would happen next.
We got to my parents’ home, and everyone was excited to see us. My mother and aunt had cooked up an elaborate meal for us, ready to just sit down at the table and get to know Adam better.
All through dinner, everything went as well as expected, and Adam happily enjoyed having the attention centered around him.
“This is new for me,” he said as we did the dishes in between the mains and dessert. “I’m not used to having people pay attention to me like this.”
“It’s a good thing,” I said, handing him a plate. “You’re supposed to feel welcome and at home with my family, too.”
As the night died down and we all went to bed, ready for a good night’s sleep before the following day’s family outing to the local theme park, Adam kept disturbing my sleep.
“What’s going on?” I asked, turning to face him.
“I just can’t sleep, Sasha,” he snapped. “It’s not my bed, and I’m not used to sleeping in beds that aren’t my own. And your bed is lumpy and uncomfortable.”
“Just go and take a walk outside,” I grumbled. “The fresh air should make a difference, and you’ll come back and fall asleep.”
“Fine,” he said, getting out of bed and leaving the room.
I was just about to fall asleep again when Adam’s scream pierced the air. I bolted upright in bed with my heart racing.
What on earth was going on? Was there someone in the house? Were we in danger?
While my brain was moving a mile a minute, trying to decide what to do next, Adam stormed back into the room.
“What happened?” I blurted out, uneasy.
My fiancé’s face contorted in a mix of horror and anger, and he paused for a minute before he started yelling.
“I cannot believe it,” he yelled. “Your mom! Sasha! Your mother! She’s kissing another man in the foyer!”
My heart sank. I had hoped that we would have gotten through this entire visit without this.
If anything, I had always dreaded this moment, the time when my parents’ unusual and unconventional marriage would come to light.
I tried to explain, to calm him down, but he wouldn’t have it.
“Call your dad, Sasha,” Adam demanded. “Tell him that your mom is cheating right here in your own home.”
It seemed logical, simple even. And I understood why Adam would think that having my father involved would solve everything.
But he couldn’t be further from the truth.
Before I could react and begin navigating the explanation, my mom walked in, still straightening her clothes.
“I can explain,” she started, but my fiancé cut her off.
“Explain? What’s there to explain? You’re cheating on your husband in his own home!”
“It’s not cheating, darling,” she said softly. “Sasha knows, and she’ll explain it all to you. Shaun and my marriage is different. Very different. It’s unconventional compared to your usual marriage. You need to understand that, Adam, before you judge us.”
Adam turned to me, eyes wide.
“You knew? You knew about this, and you didn’t tell me?”
I tried to reach out to him, but he recoiled.
“I didn’t know how to tell you, and I’m not proud of keeping this secret. But it wasn’t mine to tell.”
“Sasha!” he said, his hands in the air. “You should have told me! This isn’t something that you just keep hidden from the person that you’re going to marry. I don’t know if I can trust you now. This was a setup, wasn’t it? You wanted to introduce me to this lifestyle, isn’t it?”
By this point, I was overwhelmed, and I couldn’t understand what Adam was getting at.
I was taken back to a memory from my youth. I was 16, and my friends were planning a sleepover at my home.
“You have the biggest room, Sasha,” my friend Brielle said. “Let’s have it at your place.”
“That’s perfectly fine with me,” I said. “I don’t think my parents will mind at all! And we can watch movies in the living room because my parents have a TV in their room now, so they won’t disturb us.”
“I’ll bring my cotton candy machine,” Brielle said excitedly. “We can have that and popcorn!”
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I remember going home after school and telling my mother all about our plans. She smiled and nodded enthusiastically.
“Sure, honey,” she said. “You girls can take care of yourselves. Dad and I have a dinner that evening.”
Little did I know that later that evening, I would discover the truth about my parents’ marriage.
My friends and I were all sitting on the couch when my parents walked in with another couple. My mother was holding tightly onto a man’s hand as she kicked off her shoes. My father was kissing the other woman.
When they saw me, they were shocked. And they had no choice but to explain the situation to me.
“We are married to each other, and we love each other. We’re committed, honey. But we’re also allowed to see other people if we want to,” my mother explained gently. “There’s nothing wrong with the way we are. And you need to understand that.”
Now, listening to Adam, I was taken back to the same flood of emotions.
“No, it’s nothing like that,” I said. “I am dedicated to you. I don’t want that lifestyle.”
But Adam wasn’t having it. He just wasn’t listening. Instead, he began to speak about his mother’s infidelity which had led to his parents’ divorce. It all made him see betrayal everywhere.
“Everything is a red flag for me, Sasha.”
He packed a bag and left for a hotel, saying that he needed a moment to reevaluate our engagement.
I spent the rest of the night crying, feeling the weight of my parents’ choices crashing down on my own relationship.
“You need to talk to him,” my mother said, giving me a cup of coffee. “Just go to him.”
I joined him at the hotel. We barely spoke, the silence heavy with everything left unsaid. I didn’t know if Adam still wanted to be together or not. I suggested that we move to my grandmother’s house for the rest of our stay so that we could talk about everything while still being comfortable.
“Yeah,” he said. “That’s okay with me because this hotel is too cold anyway.”
There was a coldness between us that hadn’t been there before.
“I’ve never kept secrets from you,” I told him. “I didn’t know how to bring it up. It’s not something that I like talking about because I struggled to understand it myself.”
Adam sighed, rubbing his temples.
“I get it. But this feels too close to home, Sasha,” he said. “I just need some time.”
We spent the rest of the week at my grandmother’s house, trying to finish the family visit in the best spirits we could muster. My parents apologized to Adam, but it didn’t matter anymore.
It wasn’t about them. It was about the fact that their actions had triggered my fiancé. On the drive home, Adam and I decided that we wanted to stay together and see where life took us.
“But I think we need to go to therapy,” I said, handing Adam a drink.
“I think that’s a good idea,” he said, biting his lip. “Because I need to uncover my own trauma before accepting your parents.”
Now, Adam and I have started talking about everything. From his fears, my shame, our future. We could only heal from this.
What would you have done?
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