Reddit is the place where people share stories of their life and ask fellow redditors for advice and opinion on the decision they make.
A teenage girl recently shared that her dad and his wife-to-be excluded her from their wedding and she explained the reasons behind that heartbreaking decision.
“I (f18) was always pretty close to my dad. Closer to my mom but I often visited my dad (about 3-4 times a week). A few years ago he started dating “Anna”. Anna and I always got along when my dad proposed I was happy Anna seemed like she would be a great stepmom,” she started her post.
OP said that she was overly excited and was looking forward to the wedding. She bought a dress and shoes, but then her dad told her that he and his fiancée needed to talk to her about something important.
“Well a few weeks before the wedding after I had bought everything (dress, shoes, etc) my dad and Anna said they needed to “talk to me” Anna and my dad decided to have a child free wedding which I get especially for young kids.
“Well turns out child-free means no one under 18. On the day of the wedding, I was still going to be 17 so, therefore, I’m not allowed to be at the wedding because Anna wants to stay true to the child-free rule even for the daughter of the groom and her about-to-be stepdaughter.”
Devastated, OP told her mom what her dad and Anna said to her. The mom was as heartbroken as her daughter and decided to take her on vacation so that she cheer up. At the same time, the mom told the rest of the family what her ex-husband did to their daughter. Understandably, most of them were shocked and angry.
Later, OP posted birthday pictures on Facebook and wrote, “I’m so glad my dad and Anna didn’t allow me at their wedding since I was under 18; I feel more mature since yesterday.”
“The family was freaking out asking if that was true and bashing my dad and Anna. I later got a bunch of texts from my dad and Anna calling me immature and a selfish brat and that’s why I was too immature to be at a wedding. I was talking to some friends and they said I was kinda an AH for doing that and I should have just let it go.”
Fellow redditors shared their opinions and agreed that OP wasn’t an AH for telling the family what her dad did to her.
“NTA. What kind of man doesn’t have his own child at his wedding? Anyway, they made the choice, if they believe it was the right choice they should have no issue about it being publicly known. Plus, people might well assume you weren’t there because you disapproved of his new wife or chose a vacation instead. Ensuring people know WHY you weren’t there saves your own reputation,” one person commented.
“The no children was made for you. I’m sorry but let that sink in. She made that rule to keep you out. You now know where you stand in their marriage…you don’t. I’m so sorry. NTA. I personally think it was EPIC. Harsh but epic. They deserved more than that. I would even update it with pictures of their texts,” another added.
A third wrote, “I can’t help but wonder if she purposefully pick a date before OP birthday just so she couldn’t go. If the dad & step-mom wanted to make it child free but make sure OP was there they could have made sure the date was AFTER OP birthday but to make it just 2 days before….. nah they didn’t want her there & was just trying to use that as an excuse.”
We believe the dad was not right for excluding his own daughter from the wedding.
What are your thoughts on this?
“Look Like Mother and Son,” Daniel Radcliffe, 34, Makes Rare Appearance With Partner, 39 — Fans Are Shocked
When Daniel Radcliffe and Erin Darke arrived at the Tony Awards, their entrance electrified the event. The audience buzzed, captivated not only by their striking appearance, but also by the cascade of responses their presence provoked.
The Harry Potter star and his partner of 12 years, Erin Darke, made a super rare red-carpet appearance together this weekend. The duo, who have been together since 2012 and celebrated the birth of their first child in April of the previous year, appeared deeply enamored with each other as they attended the 77th Annual Tony Awards.
The 34-year-old actor wrapped an arm around his 39-year-old girlfriend’s waist as they laughed and tenderly looked into each other’s eyes while posing for photos. He looked sharp in a lilac suit paired with a bowtie, while Erin caught everyone’s attention in a shimmering gray ball gown embellished with sequins and rhinestones, complete with a tulle skirt.
People online praised the beautiful couple and showered them with compliments. One person wrote, ’’They look great and so happy,’’ and another added, ’’They both look so happy and comfortable with each other.’’
However, many were taken aback by the height difference between the couple. One observer shared, “Look like mother and son. The difference in height is also embarrassing, he needs to find someone shorter than him.” Someone else noted, ’’They don’t look suited, but love is love.’’
We admire the radiant confidence and beauty of this lovely couple. Another celebrity duo making recent headlines was Ashton Kutcher and Mila Kunis, who appeared with their son and daughter. Online viewers were astonished to see the two beautiful children, who are rarely seen in public.
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