Barry Manilow explains why he waited decades to come out as gay

During a guest appearance on HBO’s Who’s Talking to Chris Wallace, the 80-year-old Copacabana singer said he didn’t think it was important to announce his sexuality during the earlier decades of his career.

Manilow came out in 2017, almost three years after he married his husband and manager Garry Kief in a private ceremony. The couple have been together for 45 years now, though they’ve kept much of their relationship away from the public eye.

When he came out to People magazine in 2017, Manilow — whose real name is Barry Pincus — worried he’d be “disappointing” some of his fans by revealing his sexuality. Instead, Manilow, who was 73 at the time, said the reaction from his fanbase was “beautiful.”

Garry Kief and Barry Manilow.
Garry Kief and Barry Manilow attend the 2016 Pre-Grammy Gala at The Beverly Hilton Hotel on Feb. 14, 2016, in Beverly Hills, Calif. Steve Granitz/WireImage

Despite his current feelings of nonchalance about his own coming out, Manilow said announcing his sexuality as his career was booming would have been a bad idea.

“Now being gay is no big deal,” he explained. “Back in the ’70s it would have killed a career.”

Regardless, the usually very private Manilow said he thinks “everybody knew that Garry and I were a couple all those years.”

“Really, Garry and I’ve been together for so long,” he said. “It just never dawned on me that we’re going to come out. But when we got married, it was a big deal, so we did.”

Manilow credited Kief for saving his life. He said he is thankful he had Kief to support him as his music career was taking off, despite keeping their relationship under wraps.

“As my career exploded, it was just crazy. And, you know, going back to an empty hotel room, you can get into a lot of trouble if you’re alone night after night after night,” Manilow explained. “But I met Garry right around when it was exploding. And I didn’t have to go back to those empty hotel rooms. I had somebody to cry with or to celebrate with.”

Manilow said he did not wish an isolated hotel room for any young people.

“It was pretty lonely until I met Garry. And then it was fun,” he smiled.

Kief is not Manilow’s first spouse. In 1964, Manilow married his high school sweetheart, Susan Deixler. They were married for one year.

Manilow told CNN’s Wallace he “really did love” Deixler, but added “the gay thing was pretty, pretty strong. I couldn’t deny it.”

The singer said he knew he was gay before marrying Deixler, but their marriage ended because Manilow couldn’t be the committed husband his then-wife needed. He revealed that his sexuality was not the reason his marriage failed.

“We had a very nice marriage, it was great, but I was away every night making music, as a young musician would be,” Manilow described. “It wasn’t good for me, and it wasn’t good for her.”

“I couldn’t be the proper husband,” he continued. “I was out making music every night, sowing my wild oats. I wasn’t ready to settle down.”

Brooklyn-born Manilow skyrocketed to international fame in 1974 after his release of the ever-popular pop-rock ballad Mandy. He became one of the biggest-selling musicians of all time. Prior to his success as a singer-songwriter, Manilow was behind a number of famous commercial jingles for brands like State Farm and Band-Aid — a gig that he has said helped him create catchy hooks for his own hit songs.

Barry Manilow.

Jack Nicholson Makes Triumphant Return to Lakers Game

Jack Nicholson is still in the news at the age of 86. Nicholson, who is recognized as one of the greatest performers of his generation, is most recognized for his iconic parts in films such as Chinatown, One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest, and The Shining.

However, Nicholson is also well-known in Los Angeles for being an ardent Lakers supporter. He has been a mainstay at Lakers games for decades, never leaving his courtside perch. The three-time Oscar winner was a fixture on the fan base, especially during big games.

Nicholson has, meanwhile, distanced himself from the spotlight in recent years, and Lakers fans noticed his absence. Fans who have been missing him were therefore pleasantly surprised by his comeback this past weekend.

Jack Nicholson at Lakers game

Nicholson made a rare public appearance at the Lakers’ game 6 first-round playoff series against the Memphis Grizzlies following a year-long absence. He grabbed his usual spot courtside with his son at his side, and when he appeared on the jumbotron, the audience sent up a loud cheer.

Many of Nicholson’s devoted followers have expressed concern over his health at the age of 86. There were rumors concerning his well-being stoked by certain paparazzi images that were shot outside his Beverly Hills home. Fans were relieved to discover he was still going strong when they saw him at the Lakers game.

Jack Nicholson with LeBron James

The excitement of the evening was increased when basketball player LeBron James greeted Nicholson prior to the game. The Lakers went on to win the game and the series, so maybe his presence was a lucky charm for the team.

Jack Nicholson has been a Lakers fan for many years. In 1970, he bought his first season tickets, and he frequently made time in his hectic Hollywood schedule to attend significant games. The exciting atmosphere at Lakers home games is enhanced by Nicholson’s recognizable presence, complete with his trademark sunglasses.

Fans were ecstatic to see Jack Nicholson return to the court and support their team after a protracted layoff. He is a true icon of the game because of his unrelenting devotion to the Lakers and his enduring star power.

Jack Nicholson is the biggest Lakers fan alive, so we’re thrilled he was able to attend this crucial game in person, just like in the old days. If you are a fan of Jack Nicholson, tell this story!

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