Just as my wife’s water broke, I got a call from my mother’s nurse, and she told me my mom was dying. I was torn and forced to make a difficult decision.
The day Debra found out she was pregnant was one of those days that I will cherish for the rest of my life. We had cried together, unable to believe that we were going to have a baby home soon, and I promised Debra I’d be an amazing dad.
Debra and I had waited to become parents for a long time. We were one of those miracle couples who conceived after going through tons of failed fertility treatments and doctors telling us there was no chance.
“We’ll be the best parents to him, darling,” I told Debra one night. “I can’t wait to hold our baby in my arms.”
“I know, honey,” she’d said, smiling. I gently kissed her baby bump and promised Debra I’d always be by her side.
Debra had always been very anxious about the pregnancy due to the complications, and I had told her I would be there for her, so there was no need to worry.
Little did I know fate would plunge me into a situation where I’d have to choose between her and my mom while was in labor…
I still get chills when I recall that day. It started as a beautiful day. The sun was shining brightly, and nothing seemed wrong with the outside world. I was preparing breakfast in the kitchen because Debra wasn’t feeling well that morning.
I quickly assembled a breakfast plate for her, and I went to call her for breakfast. As I entered our bedroom, I saw she was leaning against the wall with one hand, clutching her baby bump and breathing heavily.
“Honey, are you okay?” I dashed to her, worried. “Should I call the doctor?”
“Gordon…my water…it…it broke,” she whispered heavily, and that’s when I noticed the floor beneath her. It was wet. “Take me to the hospital, Gordon…Please!” she cried.
“Jesus!” I panicked. “I’ll get the car started. Just hang on a sec, honey.”
I ran to our car, grabbing the keys from the bowl on the living room shelf. I opened the car door, then rushed back inside to help Debra.
“Don’t worry, honey. We’ll reach the hospital in no time. Okay, we’ve got this.” I was comforting her as her labor pains began. I was terrified and nervous. I was praying everything would be fine.
After we made it to the car and Debra got inside, I locked her door and rushed to take my seat. Then my phone rang. It was my mom’s nurse, Marla, calling me. My mother had been diagnosed with a progressive cardiac condition, and due to her illness, she was confined to bed rest.
Worried, I answered the phone, and Marla’s voice on the other end of the line broke me from inside.
“Gordon,” she said in a weak voice. “Your mom… She had a heart attack, so I took her to the hospital. The doctors say there is little hope she’ll make it… Your mother is dying. I think you should be here as soon as you can.”
“Jesus, Jesus!” I exhaled a sigh. Why was everything happening at the same time? I was ripped to shreds and didn’t know what to do. On the one hand, there was Debra, who was in labor, and on the other, there was my mother.
I went inside the car, tears in my eyes, and told Debra everything. I couldn’t hide it from her, anyway. She saw my face and asked me what was wrong. And I blurted everything out.
“Mom is dying, honey. She had a heart attack, and Marla’s asking me to be there as soon as possible. I am so nervous. I – I don’t know what to do….”
“Honey,” Debra said. “Call a taxi. I’ll go by myself…”
“What?” I was taken aback. “No, we can’t do that!”. She was drenched in sweat and moaning in pain. “Look at you. It’s just not….”
“We don’t have time, honey…Ahh…call the taxi now, Gordon. Your mom needs you. You are a son first, then a husband. I will manage. Your mom…she…” Her pain was becoming worse.
“I’m calling the taxi. Oh, God!”
Thankfully, I got a taxi soon, and I instructed the driver to take Debra to the hospital safely. My hands shook as I drove to my mother’s hospital, and my tears wouldn’t stop. My heart was racing, wondering about Debra’s condition and if our baby would be alright.
Baby with White Hair Overcomes Challenges and Shines with Happiness
Any parent would be happy to have a newborn, and Patricia Williams was no different. She thought her baby Redd was perfect when he was brought into the world. She had no idea that his unusual features would present obstacles as well as opportunities for success in the years to come.
Patricia and her husband Dale became aware of their son’s lateral eye movements when he was only two months old. Fearing for their lives, they searched Google and discovered something unexpected: it might be an indication of albinism. One in 17,000 individuals worldwide suffer with albinism, an uncommon disorder marked by pale complexion, white hair, and tracking eyes.
Patricia and Dale sought a formal diagnosis, and after consulting with experts, it was determined that Redd had Oculocutaneous Albinism Type I (OCA1). The pair was surprised since they were unaware of this illness. However, this realization was only the start of their adventure.
Redd’s unusual features presented difficulties as he grew older. He was the victim of bullying at school, but fortunately, his elder brother Gage stood up for him. When Patricia’s second son, Rockwell, was born with the same issue, her early hopes that Redd would outgrow his unique qualities were dashed.
The difficulties persisted after that. Rockwell’s photos were twisted into cruel memes on social media, adding insult to injury for the family. However, Patricia and Dale took a bold choice rather than focusing on the negative. They made the decision to become activists for albinism, spreading knowledge to stop bullying of other kids who have the illness.
Patricia became determined to spread awareness about albinism after realizing that most people had limited understanding of the condition and that uncommon films and scant representation had largely shaped people’s opinions. She recognized that she had a rare chance to dispel myths and raise awareness of this illness.
Redd’s strabismus was treated with eye surgery in order to improve his condition. The procedure worked, and Redd did well when he went from attending a school for the blind to a public one. He accepted himself and his special qualities with the help of his devoted family and friends.
Redd and Rockwell are still happy now and continue to shatter stereotypes. Apart from needing a hat, sunglasses, and sunscreen when playing outside, they are just like any other kids in the world. Love and adoration for Patricia’s latest video of Rockwell during his school’s “Western Day” went viral on social media. His charming beauty and the characteristic light blue eyes of an albino person grabbed the attention of many.
Patricia’s message of love, acceptance, and understanding is evident despite the difficulties of the voyage. The tale of this family inspires us all and serves as a reminder that individuality should be valued rather than disparaged.
The next time you come across someone special, stop to hear their tale and show them some love. We can make the world more compassionate and inclusive if we work together.
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