I take it that everyone of us must navigate our own lives and take responsibility for our decisions? However, it is in our nature as humans to want to help friends who are actually in need. However, what would you do if your friend—the one you always stand by—started confiding in you about all of their issues, repeatedly, and with no sign of stopping? This Reddit member is exactly in that predicament. She wondered if she was managing the matter with her buddy correctly, so she looked to the large internet community for advice.
I(32F) am a single mother of two kids (6M and 5m F). I am a single mother by choice (my kids are donor conceived).
I am lucky enough to have a good job (French teacher in a private school), and a paid off house (parents’ life insurance and inheritance).
Before I had either of my kids, I made sure to have a year’s living expenses saved, then I would take a sabbatical to recover from birth, as well as bond with my kids. While on sabbatical, I still tutor some kids for some extra income.
My friend (34F), just had a baby 2 months ago. She is the breadwinner in her household, and her husband has been unemployed since he was laid off during COVID.
It was great to be pregnant at the same time, as well as having a friend with a newborn. But it has turned sour.
She has been saying how jealous she is of me being able to take off a whole year from work, how she would have loved to not worry about losing their home, how she doesn’t even have a couple hundred dollars in her savings account, let alone a whole year’s worth of living expenses….
I usually ignore it, or brush it off, because I kind of can understand the stress she is under.
Well, starting about 10 days ago, she started hinting at not being able to afford daycare, and any mention of her husband taking care of their kid is brushed off. Then she started remarking on how much free time I must have, which I deflected by saying -truthfully- that being a single mom to a baby and a small kid left me no free time actually.
Then last night she came out with it, and asked if I could “do her a favor” and watch her kid while she’s at work. I was firm, but polite, when I said that I couldn’t, that I am not capable of watching two kids under 6 months.
She started almost begging me, saying she can’t afford daycare, and if she is not back at work, she will lose her job, and they will end up homeless. I again brought up her husband, and she said that he was not good with kids, and isn’t capable of taking care of her kid.
I kept saying no, she kept pushing, until it escalated to her calling me heartless, and me telling her that it’s not my problem she chose to have a kid with a useless man.
Now she blocked me, I am feeling very guilty about what I said, and feeling like an AH.
When a man asks a boy to play Bohemian Rhapsody, the boy steps up and puts on a show that the crowd will never forget
The iconic anthem “Bohemian Rhapsody” finds its origins with the legendary band Queen, setting a high bar for performers worldwide due to its perceived difficulty.
At London’s bustling St. Pancras International Station, a scene unfolded as a teenage boy prepared to tackle the daunting task of performing this renowned Queen song on a public piano. Just as he readied himself, two adults intervened, unaware that the young musician was already poised to take on the challenge. With a shy smile, the boy began to play, setting the stage for an unforgettable performance.
This talented individual is Cole Lam, a 12-year-old pianist known for his virtuosity in playing both classical compositions and modern hits in bustling locales like St. Pancras. Beyond the piano, Cole showcases his musical prowess on various instruments, including the guitar and clarinet. Remarkably, despite his tender age, Cole’s repertoire extends to songwriting and composing, making him a prodigious talent poised for greatness.
As Cole embarked on his rendition of “Bohemian Rhapsody”, onlookers braced themselves, hopeful that the young artist would do justice to Queen’s masterpiece. Two men, perhaps skeptical of the boy’s ability to tackle such a monumental piece, approached him as he prepared to play. Little did they know, Cole was about to astound them and the entire crowd with his exceptional talent.
As Cole’s fingers danced across the piano keys, a transformation occurred. Immersed in his performance, he seemed to transcend the bustling station environment, channeling every ounce of emotion into each note. His passion and dedication were palpable, captivating all who were fortunate enough to witness his rendition of Queen’s classic.
Despite his youth, Cole’s commitment to his craft is unmistakable, serving as an inspiration to aspiring musicians everywhere. With each mesmerizing performance, he continues to hone his talents, poised to make a significant mark on the world of music.
Witnessing Cole’s extraordinary talent firsthand is an experience to be shared, a testament to the power of music to transcend age and captivate hearts. So, share his story and his performance with friends and family, and join in celebrating the remarkable journey of this young musical prodigy.
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