Smaller houses and apartments don’t stop many Japanese couples from sleeping in different beds or even rooms. This is not some kind of an intimate issue or problem with the relationship, but something that they believe is good for them.
We at Bright Side found out why married couples in Japan choose to sleep separately, and we really like their reasons.
They have different sleep schedules.
The first thing that makes Japanese couples decide to go to bed separately is different work schedules. Waking up your significant other just because you got home late from work or have to leave early won’t result in good quality rest for them. This is why spending the night in a different room makes sense. This will give them both an undisturbed and healthier sleep.
Babies sleep with their mothers.
Japanese mothers sleep with their children and this is considered very important, so the father needs to decide if he wants to share the same bed or go to a different room. Even science has proven that co-sleeping can help parents and children get a more restful sleep. It helps the child to maintain a stable temperature and heart rate (which is really critical in infancy) and at the same time, it decreases the chance of sudden infant death syndrome. Also, this contributes to the child having better self-esteem, becoming independent faster, and doing great in school.
For them, sleeping separately means peace.
While many couples who start to sleep alone think that divorce is at their door, the Japanese see it differently. They value their sleep a lot and they don’t want to be disturbed while sleeping. This means that they don’t need and don’t like to put up with snoring, restless sleep, kicking, etc. Even though some don’t have the opportunity to sleep in different rooms, they still wish they could get their beauty sleep.
Couples have a history of sleeping separately.
Futons are filled with cotton, which provides support and comfort. In the past, only single sized ones were used as beds. So, even if you wanted to cuddle up with your loved one, you would have ended up between the sheets, on the cold floor, and you wouldn’t feel comfortable. Today there are families that still use this type of bedding, especially because it doesn’t take up a lot of space and it is easy to store.
Do you sleep separately from your partner? Do you think this type of practice might be even better for your relationship?
It is not an edited photo. Examine Up Close and Try Not to Gasp
On January 1, 1985, a photo captured a glamorous moment between Ann-Margret and Roger Smith. The couple, both celebrated figures in Hollywood, were attending a high-profile event, their elegance and charm perfectly encapsulated in the image.
Ann-Margret, known for her vibrant performances and timeless beauty, stood out in a stunning, gold-embellished gown. Her hair, styled in soft waves, framed her face beautifully, and her confident smile added to her radiant presence. The intricate details of her dress, with its lace and shimmering fabric, showcased her impeccable taste in fashion, making her the center of attention. PHOTO BELOW
Beside her, Roger Smith exuded a classic, refined charm. Dressed in a sharp black tuxedo with a crisp white shirt and a bow tie, he complemented Ann-Margret’s elegance perfectly. His poised demeanor and gentle smile reflected his own stature in the entertainment industry, as both an actor and a producer.
The couple’s journey together had always fascinated their fans. They had met in the 1960s, and their relationship blossomed into a deep and enduring love.
Roger Smith, who had gained fame from his role in the television series “77 Sunset Strip,” had become Ann-
Margret’s greatest supporter. When he was diagnosed with myasthenia gravis, a neuromuscular disease, Ann-Margret stood by his side, showing the strength and devotion that defined their partnership.
This photograph, taken at a time when both were at the height of their careers, captures more than just a moment of style and grace. It reflects their bond, their mutual support, and the love that had carried them through many challenges. Ann-Margret’s poised presence and Roger’s steadfast gaze tell a story of a couple deeply connected, both personally and professionally.
The backdrop of the photo, with its rich green drapes, adds to the regal ambiance, making the image not just a snapshot of a night out, but a portrait of Hollywood royalty. The elegance of Ann-Margret and Roger Smith in this photo is timeless, a testament to their legacy in the world of entertainment and their enduring love story.
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