Weddings are some of the most beautiful celebrations one can experience in their life (usually). The deep connection between two lovers taking physical form in a ceremonious act for all to see is one that a lot of couples look forward to.
However, it also comes with months upon months of planning, stress, and even more planning. The one thing that a bride cannot go without—the special dress. Whether it be white, maroon, black, fluffy, frilly, or form-fitting, it must make the wearer feel likе the most beautiful woman in the whole entire world.
Some brides take the plunge of crafting their own dresses, be it for the challenge, for the love of the craft, or both. Today we delve into the story of Veronika Lindberg Heino, or Kika, who knitted her special gown for her big day in 6 weeks. She was kind enough to answer some of Bored Panda’s questions so let’s get into it!
Veronika Lindberg Heino, better known by her nickname Kika, decided to take up the challenge of knitting her own stunning wedding dress
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If you were given 2.5 kg of yarn and 250 hours, what would you create? Mayhaps a blanket, mayhaps a 3D portrait, or maybe a knitted wedding dress. Seeing as you clicked on this article for a very particular reason, you probably know by now that we’ll be speaking about the last option.
Opening herself to the challenge was Veronika Lindberg Heino, better known by her nickname Kika, who documented the birth of her special white dress, sharing the ups and downs with her followers on Instagram (which she started in 2017) and YouTube.
This project came about when she and her husband-to-be were both moving house and planning an impromptu wedding, making for a very stressful 7 weeks
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For what was already an intense project, life decided to add an extra bit of *spice*: they were moving house and planning their wedding, happening 7 weeks later, at the same time, so why not add in a project of great significance on top of it all? Unless you’re as skiIIed as Kika, I wouldn’t recommend it!
“I do love a challenge and I’m often a little bit over-ambitious, and the thought felt so wild and inspiring that I just decided to take the risk and do it,” the Finland-based knitter told Good Morning America (GMA). “I ordered 2.5 kg of pure silk yarn and announced my crazy plan on Instagram, and knew right then, there was no turning back anymore.”
She ordered 2.5 kg of pure silk yarn and announced her plans to her followers on Instagram, getting the project officially started with no way to turn back
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Kika based her design around Dior, Chanel, and Ulla Johnson’s dresses. She then sketched and planned the patterns. After all that, the knitting began!
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Nothing worth doing ever comes easy. It was a struggle finding time to knit in between moving, planning the wedding, and publishing her first book
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Instead of throwing Kika off balance, this added project seemed to have the opposite effect: it kept her grounded through the tumultuous time, at least for a while. Nothing worth doing comes easy, and this project was no exception, especially as she’d never knitted a dress before.
“The process was definitely intense, and the biggest struggle was to find enough time for knitting since we were in the process of moving and organizing the wedding at the same time,” said Kika. “Plus I published my first-ever knitting book, so it was definitely hectic. But, I also enjoyed it immensely and loved seeing my vision come to life in the process.”
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Then a big setback occured—her bodice was far too big, requiring her to rip it all up and start again. Her sleeves then kept slipping off, which took lots of time to fix
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Glaring issues started appearing about two weeks in when Kika had finished the bodice and tried it on for the first time—it was way too big. Disappointed, but not defeated, the bride-to-be ripped it all up, starting all over again, describing it as “a tough and frustrating moment where some tears were shed.”
One more issue came along with the slippy sleeves that kept on slipping, revealing a tad bit too much, which Kika found hilarious yet time-consuming to fix. “I made sure to film all my mistakes so I could be real and honest with my viewers, rather than only showing them the picture-perfect moments,” she told Insider.
Not having any other option (you typically can’t just go and buy a dress off the rack, as those require alterations, which take a long time), she kept moving forward until it was one week til the wedding. Encouraging messages from her followers kept her spirits up, the promise she’d made to the project at the very beginning providing her with a sense of accountability.
However, “the biggest motivator was definitely seeing for myself if I could pull my idea and vision off, and the thought of having the dress as a memory for life really kept me going, too.”
But all that didn’t deter her! Just 4 days before the big day, the dress was finished and Kika got to have a well-deserved rest
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Everything was done. She finished her dress on Tuesday, feeling more tired and frustrated than elated, but once she put it on for the ceremony, she couldn’t have been happier with the end result.
Kika got married to her husband Jukka Heino on Saturday, September 10, at their new home (which inspired the cottage-themed wedding tone), just 4 days after she’d finished her dress. Although her partner was a bit more skeptical about her last-minute knitting project, “in the end, he was super impressed and proud of me, and thought it looked really good too,” Kika said.
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Kika told Bored Panda that they’d met back in Spring of 2020, when she moved back home to Finland from London, as the pandemic put the world in lockdown. “Just a few months after moving back I met Juki and for our first date we walked around in Helsinki for hours since all cafés and bars were closed due to the restrictions,” she said.
“I was immediately drawn to his humor and often colorful stories of his adventures which made me laugh, and of course I found him really handsome. I think he was drawn to my enthusiasm, something we both have in common and my positive attitude towards life.”
She married Jukka Heino on Saturday, September 10, at their new home. Everyone loved her dress, praising her for all the effort she’d put into it
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“Over the course of the day, guests would come up to me and immediately feel the dress and comment on it. It sometimes felt likе they were more interested in the dress than in me, but I love talking about knitting, so I didn’t mind too much,” she told Insider.
The entire process demanded around 45 days, roughly 250 hours, and 1.5 kg of pure silk yarn, costing 300 euros, or around $295, which is a bargain when it comes to wedding dresses, which go for $1,800 on average. Her 149k followers on Instagram absolutely loved the journey, jumping in with suggestions and support any time she needed it.
The entire process demanded around 45 days, roughly 250 hours, and 1.5 kg of pure silk yarn, costing 300 euros, or around $295
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The 46-minute vlog of the whole journey posted on YouTube has garnered over 3.4M views, quickly becoming the highlight of her channel, which has over 253k subscribers that look forward to her knitting tutorials. “I’m absolutely amazed by all the positive attention the video and my dress has gotten, wow!” said Kika.
“I’ve received messages from people all over the world telling me I’ve inspired them to take up knitting again or to learn it, which makes me so glad. I’m also proud that I’ve maybe been able to push the boundaries and show what is possible using knitting.”
According to Kika, “knitting was actually done primarily by men at some point in history, so the fact that knitting nowadays is associated with something mostly feminine hasn’t always been the case.” Knitting is not just for grandmas, y’all!
The 46-minute vlog of the entire process garnered over 3.4M views on YouTube, inspiring hundreds of people to take up or go back to the craft
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What began as a bonding activity with her grandma when she was 5 years old has become a lifestyle, bringing together likе-minded people from all over the world. The one lesson she’d always kept was to be playful with the craft, rather than searching for perfection.
“With knitting there are a lot of ‘rules’ or principles that come with the territory which sometimes can make it feel likе you’re not doing things the right way,” she told Bored Panda. “My grandmother always encouraged me to make things without getting hung up on perfection, being creative and playful was more important.”
She hopes her followers and those who jumped on the bandwagon to see the final dress get inspired to embrace creative projects they might feel tempted to try—“even if it might feel a bit ambitious, I say go for it!”
We wish Kika and Jukka all the best for their future together and can’t wait to see what’s coming up for them next!
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A post-pandemic resurgence of knitting is a very welcome sight for many who are getting into arts and crafts for the first time or returning back to the familiar time-passing activity. Recent research shows that knitting has a measurable effect on calming anxiety, relieving stress, and aiding with chronic pain, as well as helping one build a community of friends. And you end up with a cute hat and mittens in the meantime!
“I think knitting as a craft teaches you a lot about patience and really makes you think about what kind of garments you most likе to wear,” Kika said. “When you’re going to spend 40-60 hours making a sweater, you really want to make sure it’s something that is going to stay in your wardrobe for a long time, which makes knitting a very sustainable practice, too.”
Honestly, what’s not to love!? We wish Kika and Jukka all the best for their future together and hope to see many more exciting knitting projects! Let us know your thoughts on the dress in the comments below, and I shall see you in the next one!
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My Husband Gave His Mother All Our Savings Without Asking Me — So I Taught Him a Lesson He’d Never Forget
When I got a notification that nearly all our savings had been drained from our joint account, I assumed it was a hack or a mistake. It wasn’t. My husband, Mark, had done the unthinkable, and what I did next ensured he’d never forget it.
There’s a saying that you can tell a lot about a man by the way he treats his mother.
In Mark’s case, I learned that sometimes, a man can treat his mother too well. For years, I let it slide, but this time, he crossed a line so bold it couldn’t be ignored.
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To be honest, Mark wasn’t a bad man.
He was a decent father, a loyal husband, and a diligent worker. But there was one glaring flaw in his otherwise steady demeanor. His mother, Melissa.
At 71, she wielded an influence over him that defied logic.
If Melissa wanted something, Mark would find a way to make it happen, no matter how ridiculous or inconvenient it might be.
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One time, she decided she needed a new car, and Mark co-signed a loan we could barely afford.
Another time, she convinced him to buy her a state-of-the-art recliner because “her back couldn’t take the old one anymore.”
These decisions, while irritating, never truly jeopardized our marriage.
But this time was different.
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That day began like any other.
I was at work, finishing up my shift, when my phone buzzed with a text. It was a notification from the bank stating that nearly all the money in our joint savings account had been withdrawn.
My stomach dropped.
At first, I thought it had to be a fraud. My mind raced through every worst-case scenario. Was our account hacked? Had someone stolen our details?
I immediately called the bank officer who managed our savings account to report the issue.
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“Jessica, the withdrawal was processed in person,” he said, his voice calm and professional.
“In person?” I asked, my pulse quickening.
“Yes, ma’am. Your husband came in earlier today to transfer the funds to another account. Was that not authorized?”
“Oh, right,” I said, pretending I knew about it. “I must’ve forgotten. Thank you.”
My hands trembled as I hung up.
Why would Mark empty our savings account? What emergency could possibly justify taking nearly everything we had worked so hard to save? And that too behind my back?
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I debated calling him immediately but decided against it. This was a conversation that needed to happen face-to-face.
When Mark walked through the door that evening, I could feel something was off. He had that nervous energy about him like a child trying to avoid eye contact with a teacher after breaking a rule.
“How was your day?” I asked, my voice calm despite the storm brewing inside me.
“Fine, fine,” he replied, setting his keys on the counter without looking up.
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“Great,” I said. “So, maybe you can tell me why you emptied our joint savings account without so much as a word?”
He froze mid-step, his back to me. Then he slowly turned but hesitated to make eye contact.
“Oh. That.”
“Yes, that, Mark,” I said as my voice trembled.
“Look, honey,” he started, scratching the back of his neck. “It’s for the family. For the long term.”
“What. Did. You. Do?” I demanded.
And that’s when he said it. His tone was so casual, you’d think he was talking about picking up milk from the store.
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“I gave the money to my mother because she needed it to buy a country house. It’s an investment, really. She said it’ll be ours when she passes, and until then, she’ll rent it out for income. She needed it more than us right now.”
For a moment, I didn’t react. I just stood there as I tried to process what he’d just said.
“You what?” My voice came out in a low whisper, though it sounded like it was coming from a million miles away.
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Mark shifted on his feet, as if he were trying to downplay the gravity of what he’d just admitted.
“It’s not a big deal, Jess,” he said. “She’s family. And you know, the house will eventually be ours anyway. It’s like an early inheritance.”
“An early inheritance?” I repeated. “Are you serious?”
“Yes!” He gestured with his hands like he was explaining something to a child. “She’s going to rent it out, and the income will help her cover expenses. And when the time comes…”
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“When the time comes?” I interrupted, slamming my hands down on the kitchen counter. “Mark, that was our money! Money we worked for, saved for, and planned to use for emergencies. For us. Not for your mother to play landlord with!”
“It’s not like we needed it right now,” he muttered, avoiding my eyes.
“Not like we needed it right now?” I repeated, my voice rising. “Mark, you didn’t even ask me! You emptied our savings account, our life savings, without so much as a conversation. Do you have any idea how betrayed I feel right now?”
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“It’s not like I was trying to hurt you, Jess,” he said. “I thought you’d understand.”
“Understand?” I laughed. “You think I’d understand you giving away all our money to your mother? For a house? Without even consulting me?”
Mark sighed, rubbing his temples like he was the one who had to deal with the problem. “Look, I know it seems bad now, but in the long run, this is a good thing for the family. She’s family, Jess. She needed help.”
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“And what about this family, Mark?” I shot back, motioning between the two of us. “What about the future we’re supposed to be building together? Do I not matter in your plans for the ‘long run’?”
“It’s not like that,” he began. “I just didn’t want to burden you with the decision. I thought…”
“You thought wrong,” I cut him off.
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I stared at him as my eyes searched for some hint of remorse. Some sign that he realized just how much damage he’d done.
But all I saw was a man who thought he’d done the right thing, even if it meant betraying his partner.
That’s when I knew.
If Mark couldn’t see the problem here, I would have to make him see it. And I would have to do it in a way he’d never forget.
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The next morning, I woke up with a clear head and a sharper resolve than I’d felt in years. Mark had crossed a line, and if he thought a half-hearted apology and some empty promises would fix this, he had another thing coming.
I started by gathering information.
You see, revenge isn’t about anger. It’s about strategy. And my strategy required precision.
First, I paid a visit to the county records office.
It didn’t take long to find what I was looking for. I was there for Melissa’s new country house, purchased outright with our hard-earned savings.
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That was the first time I saw the property. It was a small but picturesque house with a neatly fenced yard. I made a copy of every document I could find and left without a shred of guilt.
Next, I scheduled a meeting with the bank manager.
It turns out that Mark had made one critical oversight: while he’d emptied the bulk of our savings, he hadn’t closed the account entirely. There were still a few hundred dollars left, and more importantly, my name was still attached to the account.
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Legally, I had just as much claim to the funds and the assets they’d been used to purchase, as he did.
With the bank’s information in hand, I moved on to the next phase of my plan.
I hired a lawyer, but it wasn’t just any lawyer. It was the best one in town.
A sharp, no-nonsense woman named Linda who had a reputation for leaving no stone unturned.
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“Let me get this straight,” Linda said during our first meeting. “Your husband used joint funds to buy a house for his mother, without your knowledge or consent?”
“That’s right,” I replied.
Linda’s eyes gleamed. “Well, that’s a textbook breach of fiduciary duty in a marriage. We can work with this.”
Over the next few weeks, Linda and I built our case.
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In states that follow equitable distribution laws, any asset purchased during a marriage, even if it’s in someone else’s name, can be considered marital property if joint funds were used.
Mark had no idea that his “investment” had essentially tied Melissa’s precious house to our divorce proceedings.
While I worked quietly behind the scenes, Mark went about his days as though nothing had happened. I guess he believed the storm had passed, and I let him think that.
Two months later, everything was ready. The court proceedings had been tense, to say the least.
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Mark had been served with the divorce papers and had hired his own lawyer, who tried to argue that the house was solely his mother’s property. But the evidence was undeniable. Our joint funds had been used to purchase the house, and as such, it was considered marital property.
The judge ultimately ruled that Mark’s actions had breached his responsibilities as a spouse by unilaterally using our savings without my consent.
As part of the divorce settlement, I was granted half ownership of the property.
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Mark’s reaction in court was explosive. As the judge ruled in my favor, he slammed his hands on the table, his face red with rage.
“This is ridiculous!” he shouted, glaring at me like I’d betrayed him. His lawyer tried to calm him, but Mark’s fury only grew.
“You’re destroying this family, Jessica!” he spat as we left the courtroom.
“Oh no, Mark,” I said coolly. “You did that all on your own.”
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A few weeks later, I drove out to the country house while Melissa was out of town.
Over there, I met Steve, the man who wanted to purchase my half of the house. We finalized the deal right there, while Melissa and Mark had no idea what I was up to.
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A week later, Melissa returned and found Steve’s pickup truck parked in the driveway, three dogs lounging in the yard, and a bonfire pit smoldering in the back.
She called me, screaming, “What have you done?”
“I sold my half, Melissa,” I said calmly. “It’s not my problem anymore.”
Mark called next, ranting about “family betrayal,” but I hung up mid-sentence.
Now divorced, I’ve never felt freer. My revenge was complete, and for once, the cost was all theirs to bear.
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